10 Little Things Holding My Life Together Right Now
From NYX Praline to calendar chaos control.
Let’s be honest—my days are kind of a whirlwind. Between building an app, keeping up with two jobs, trying to look presentable, and actually living my life (Boston nights, gym mornings, and all the in-betweens), I rely heavily on the small things that keep me grounded, productive, and—let’s be real—a little cuter.
Here are 10 things that are lowkey holding me together right now. Nothing sponsored, nothing complicated, just real-life favorites I actually use every single day.
1. Niacinamide Serum (AM Game Changer)
I’m not saying this serum saved my skin… but I’m not not saying it. I use niacinamide every morning and my skin has completely changed—more even, way less irritated, and somehow glowier? It’s the first thing I put on after cleansing and I swear it’s what gives me that “I’m awake and thriving” look, even when I’m not.
2. NYX Butter Gloss in Praline
This lip combo is the only one I trust to make me look put together even when I’m running late and haven’t done anything else. It’s warm, flattering, and feels like your natural lip color but way better. I’ve gotten more compliments on this than any expensive product I’ve ever used.
3. The Shark Hair Wrap Thing (Yes, That’s the Official Name)
I don’t have time to do a full blowout every day—but this? This is the cheat code. It makes my hair look done in two minutes flat. I wrap a few pieces, let it sit while I do my makeup, and suddenly I look like I tried. If you know, you know.
4. Motion (My Brain Lives Here Now)
This app literally plans my day for me. It pulls in all my calendar events, helps me block time for everything, and even rearranges my tasks when I move things around. It’s how I manage building a startup, holding down two jobs, and still showing up socially without losing my mind. Highly recommend if you’ve got a million tabs open in your brain.
5. ChatGPT (The Vision Assistant)
I don’t just use ChatGPT to answer random questions—I actually use it to help me visualize and build the life I want. Planning, content strategy, even goal-setting. It’s like having a mini strategic partner in my browser, and it keeps me moving when decision fatigue hits.
6. Wired Headphones (Yes, Really)
I know we’re all about the AirPods life but hear me out—wired headphones are my go-to. They don’t die, I never lose them, and there’s something about plugging in that helps me focus. When I’m walking the city or tuning out distractions during deep work sessions, these are in.
7. The Rocky Road Latte from Blank Street
This is my if-I-don’t-have-it-I’m-scared-for-myself drink. It’s chocolatey without being too sweet, strong enough to get me through my inbox, and honestly… part of my identity at this point. If you’re in Boston, get it iced and thank me later.
8. Dolce & Gabbana Light Blue (Summer in a Scent)
This is my signature summer perfume. It’s clean, crisp, a little citrusy, and makes me feel like I’m on the Amalfi Coast even if I’m just walking to Equinox or grabbing groceries. I put it on every morning, and suddenly I feel a little more “her.”
9. My Rush Outfit Formula: Sundress + Bun + Sunnies + A Good Bag
When I don’t have time to think, this is the formula. I throw on a quick sundress (something flowy or linen if it’s hot), slick my hair into a bun, grab oversized sunnies, and pair it all with a cute structured bag. It’s effortless but still looks like I tried—and I can go from coffee run to brunch to errands without changing a thing. Add earrings or a spritz of perfume and you’re good.
10. “Up First” Podcast (My Sanity Saver)
If I don’t have time to scroll, this is my quick fix to feel informed. I listen while I get ready or during my walk to a coffee shop—it’s short, digestible, and gives me just enough context on what’s going on in the world without spiraling. Sometimes I swap this for an audiobook or something lighter, but this is a solid daily anchor.
The Real Value in the Little Things
I used to think I had to overhaul my whole life to feel on top of things. Now? I just stack the right details—the rituals, the tools, the go-to products—and they build the foundation. When my mornings start with structure and my go-to gloss, the rest kind of falls into place.
